The preschool years were amazing. Even now, when I get around other preschoolers, I am constantly in awe of the wonderful way that these young children are absorbing and learning from the world around them.
It was such a favorite time with my children, and I am so glad that I had the confidence to keep them home with me so that I could be a witness to their discoveries. By giving my young children opportunities to dig in the dirt, paint, explore nature, and learn at their own pace, they were prepared on many levels for the school years. We also made beautiful memories in the process.
In an effort to help other families enjoy teaching their preschoolers at home, I developed a curriculum called, The Peaceful Preschool. You can get more information about the curriculum at the link below, but check out this overview of what is included.
26 weeks of daily lessons using picture books to teach through the alphabet
The Peaceful Preschool, an e-book to accompany the curriculum
An alphabetized book list of favorites for your preschooler
A parent education book list
Supply list
Checklist for school readiness
Weekly planning pages and check lists
Recipes
Crafts
Ideas for when problems arise
For more information, or to purchase the curriculum
The original course, which I did through Learning Well, is also available separately through their site. The course contains several videos which give you more details for setting up a Peaceful Preschool in your own home.
My youngest son is finally starting to read. He is one of my later readers, but with the older students doing well in school, it has been easy to feel relaxed about it. However, it is one of my goals for this season to get him reading fluently. Once a student is reading, they can move much more easily into independent learning, as well as being equipped to absorb tons of information naturally as they read.
It is also one of my goals to keep learning an active process as long as that is needed, and to keep learning tear free. Some of my son's work involves writing in a workbook (Explode the Code, Cursive Copywork), so for other reading activities I try to incorporate games as often as possible.
I have had some form of a homeschool co-op for many of the 17 years that I have been homeschooling. I love being around people, and I love the accountability and enrichment that homeschooling with a co-op has provided.
Although space limitations have kept our co-ops very small, I dream of one day being able to meet in a facility where I could join with more families in my community to learn together.
In past years, we have only met once a month, but this year with no baby nap schedules to worry about and with fewer students to manage, I have two co-ops that meet every other week. This means that I have a co-op meeting each week. My children and I never have to go too long between an inundation of time with friends. Hooray for that!
One co-op is especially geared towards teaching writing and science and I am having a great time teaching the Apologia Flying Creatures class to my students. We scavenge for feathers, build bird feeders, and mostly draw, paint and read books. It is loads of fun. Meanwhile, friends who are better at teaching the upper grades are doing biology and general science with my older kids. It is a wonderful situation where we all get to see our children learn and have fun.
I recently joined Periscope, a very interesting app for live broadcasting, and my son and I have been making videos, with my broadcasts or with iMovie. The video here is a broadcast that I did on Periscope which explains exactly how to start your own co-op.
Some of the specific steps that I talk about in the video are;
Find a group to co-op with
Pick your subjects or classes
Meet together to create a schedule
Designate who teaches what and where you will meet
Then, just do it!
It isn't too late to start a homeschool co-op this year. It could be as simple as a play date with a particular theme, or as complex as hosting multiple classes. Book clubs, sewing bees and adventure clubs are all wonderful ways to get families together for fun and learning.
If you don't have a group of homeschoolers to gather with, check out the Wild and Free groups page here, or look up your state's homeschool association. Somewhere there is a group of families waiting for you to join them and learn together! If you have questions about how to start a co-op, feel free to post them here, or e-mail me at jennpepito@yahoo.com This blog post also has some great detailed advice on starting a co-op. If you want a comprehensive book that explains how to start a co-op, check out this one.
This month our history studies have focused on immigration and industry in America. As we have wrapped up our stories and readings from Civil War era history, we have begun to explore the late 1800's and early 1900's. This was an exciting time for our continent. So many new industries meant new opportunities for hopeful immigrants.
The thing that I have most looked forward to in our year of history co-op, has been this month's meeting. At the beginning of the year, when we mapped out the plan for our co-op, I knew this would be a fun day for our children. Instead of the usual program of singing, geography and art projects, our children would have the opportunity to open up a real store as well as explore their diverse ancestry.
The plan was simple. Each family would pick one of their ancestors to study, and prepare a presentation based on that ancestor's country and history. They would also bring products which related in some way to their ancestry to sell for a small amount, in this way representing the small businesses and farming endeavors which these people undertook in order to provide for their families.
We did this same project over four years ago, in the last community that we lived in, and at that time, we chose Portugal which represents my husband's grandmother. For Portugal, we sold veggies from our garden, and homemade sweet rolls. This time, we chose England, which is where my grandmother's parents came from.
They did marry, and had six beautiful children, one of whom was my own dear grandmother.
We celebrated our heritage today at our country fair by cutting up an old sheet to make "Nearly Proper English Hankies" which we sold for twenty-five cents, along with fresh homemade scones and tea.
The children listened eagerly to their friend's presentations as well. They heard reports from several European countries, as well as one from our darling little friend, who was welcomed here eight years ago by her lovely parents, becoming a first generation Chinese-American.
After the children took turns giving their presentations, the stores were open for business! My kids were excited for the opportunity to make a meager profit, one of the benefits of not offering allowance.
They were also excited to spend their money at their friends' stores. The goods for sale were exciting! Hawaiian soap, Scottish shortbread, and Chinese fans were big hits with my kids as they eagerly divested themselves of their small change. I did end up raiding my husbands coin stash a few times, to replenish their coffers, it didn't occur to me to teach them a real lesson on economy when they, and their friends were so hopeful of selling their products.
Although this day was simple to prepare for; we merely did a little crafting, cooking and report writing in the few days preceding the event, it had a big impact on the children. Now they can have a small glimpse into the process of creating products and marketing them, and a taste of what some of their ancestors experienced as they crossed the sea in search of opportunity.
A few months ago, I stumbled across the website, "Write You On My Heart", and was able to get a copy of the book, Playful Pictures, which is written by the website owners, Jeremy and Alicia Brown. I was so excited to find this resource for improving the photos we take of our children, and only wish I had found it years earlier.
I have always loved recording memories with my children through photos but there were so many basics that I had no idea about. Simple things, such as being aware of busy backgrounds and getting the right lighting, were new ideas to me. Knowing these basics would have made such a difference in the pictures that I took of my older children, it breaks my heart a little to think of how much lovelier my photos could have been.
The authors of the book convey so much enjoyment of their children, and their ideas about photography resonate with me; picture time doesn't have to be misery, it could actually be fun.
"In experimenting with our own kids, we discovered that adding play into the mix is the magic ingredient, and we wrote Playful Pictures to show you exactly how to find the same thing come true in your own family. Along with sharing our favorite iPhone photo tips, we've filled the book with inspiration, games and other ideas for making picture time playful and fun while creating space for you to easily take pictures that capture your child's heart. " (Jeremy and Alicia Brown)
The book includes a very handy checklist for making sure you are set up for success. I use the checklist regularly when I am taking pictures of my children, and it has made a big difference in the quality of my photos. One very precious feature of the book is a list, and descriptions of several games to play with your children as you are taking pictures. Games, which will not only create joy-filled pictures, but which will also make picture time a happy-memory making time with your children.
I have loved interacting with Alicia Brown. She is a very genuine person, who, with her husband has created an amazing book which so beautifully captures the joy of parenting. Not only is this book a wonderful beginning photography resource, it is also a heartfelt expression of love; capturing the joy of childhood, and the awesome privilege it is to be a parent.
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I was looking through the binder that I use for school planning and checking out the chore lists for my children to make sure that everyone was getting their stuff done. I then did a double take when I noticed that the chore list had nothing written for my two youngest children who are 7 and 5 years old.
I am pretty sure that my oldest child by seven years old was running the house, or at least able to cook lunch, change a diaper and clean the bathroom, but these youngest two have had so many older kids to pick up the slack that they have been able to act like a couple of slackers. Not really. Just super- creative, making messes all over the place, and seldom remembering to clean up all that they played with, sweethearts. I did a lot of Montessori From The Start stuff with them when they were younger; washing dishes, folding laundry, preparing snacks and polishing furniture, but now with more pressure to do real school with them, my one on one time has been spent instructing them on school subjects, or reading aloud, which has left the chore teaching, sadly lacking.
The New Chore List
To her credit, my seven year old does help out whenever asked. She collects eggs, vacuums, clears the table and unloads the dishwasher, but without a chart, it is more haphazard and there is often some resistance to the more tedious of those chores. Just when I was looking at my sad chore organizing system this morning, I happened upon a link to Riddle Love's latest post on chore planning. She shares some good resources and information about how they are doing chores which I am excited to research. She also talks about one of the most important aspects of any successful chore system. Training your workers. This is why for really important chores like cleaning the kitchen, I make a detailed list of what that entails, and post it somewhere prominent. I am hoping that with the new chore charts that I just created for the younger two, I can get them helping out with a bit more consistency and excitement. I am going to be starting a new series on Bountiful Homeschooling on a Budget, just in time to save you money over the holidays. To get this series in your inbox, simply subscribe. This post contains affiliate links
"And your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace;" Ephesians 6:15
"And your feet shod with the preparation of the Gospel of peace. The Gospel is so called, because it makes men to be of peaceable tempers and behaviour, and gives peace to distressed minds: it directs the way to eternal peace, and publishes peace made by the blood of Christ;"
Gills Exposition of the Entire Bible
We have peace with God. This should affect the way we live. It should give us the power to stay calm in the midst of chaos. It should give us freedom from fear.
Sometimes though, we clutter up our lives with activities and stuff that steal our peace. Too much television, too many activities, too many loud and obnoxious battery operated toys.
As you pursue a peaceful home, maybe there are things to eliminate. Maybe there are other things which you could add in order to create a more peaceful atmosphere.
Instead of video games, have your children play with power point and paint programs to create scripture art or other encouraging images.
"Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness; and your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace;"
Ephesians 6:14-15
It is Sunday night, a new school week is looming ahead, and although I have thought about it a lot, I have not set any plans down on paper. This is not ideal. I have tried many of different methods for homeschool planning. I have tried making plans two weeks ahead of time and handing them out to my children (my favorite). I have also tried planning a day at a time, and then there is my current mode, not planning at all.
Although, I am not writing things down weekly for us to do, we have had a school routine for many years that keeps us learning, even when we are in a season where the daily planning might not be as detailed. This routine keeps a regular rhythm to our days which provides a healthy amount of structure, with lots of time for creativity. Our routine- Wake up Personal Bible Time Breakfast Make Beds, Tidy Rooms Start Laundry Do Breakfast Clean-up Feed Animals, Collect Eggs Circle Time: Worship, Bible Reading and Devotionals, Prayer, Memory Work, Spanish, Timeline, Spelling, History or Science Read Aloud Independent Work: Math, Science, History, Handwriting, Writing, Grammar, Phonics (This is also when I help younger learners.) Lunch Clean-up Outside Chores or Free Time Read Aloud Outside Activities Dinner Prep
Although I am not doing a stellar job with passing out school plans to the children right now, I do have a two-week at a time plan that was inspired by this schedule which Ann Voskamp created. On this sheet, I list weekly meal plans, school subjects that I want to highlight and also any projects that we need to accomplish.
I also have a master list of all the school subjects that my children are supposed to be doing, so I can yell out, "Do your math!", if I see them stealthily pulling up a video game while they are sitting at the computer.
Having some kind of routine or plan is essential for having a heavenly home. The Bible says in Proverbs 29:18, "Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he."
Children are happier who have some framework to their days. A routine offers security and direction, and until they are mature enough to create that direction and vision on their own, it is our responsibility to provide it for them. Having a routine, even a loose one, is a good preparation for peaceful days.
Check out some other homeschool schedules here and here and a post about routines vs. schedules here
"Make a joyful noise unto the Lord, all ye lands."
I have a confession to make. I am a serious person. I am reading 7 by Jen Hatmaker and wishing that I could communicate really powerful truths and be so funny about it, but alas, that would be a big stretch for me. My seriousness stems in large part from my battle with fear. This battle has made it easy for me to feel that if I am not on guard, the devil is going to sneak in and destroy my family. I often find myself overly vigilant about what I do, in case it might be wrong. Part of this may be motivated by an honest desire to glorify God, but much of it may just be fear, and although my fear might be of how the devil might tempt me or my family, it is a well known fact that fear is also from the devil. The problem is, fear is the total opposite of faith (1John 4:18, Hebrews 11), and God's word says that without faith it is impossible to please God (Hebrews 11:6)
I think that this battle with fear is why I love Psalm 100 so much. All the word pictures in this Psalm portray happy little sheep cavorting in a safe pasture, and happy little children dancing and singing in a safe courtyard. Happy children who know that their daddy is good, are not afraid.
We who have accepted Christ as our Saviour have the best Daddy ever, the richest Daddy and the most loving Daddy. Because of who our Daddy is, we can be full of joy. We can live free of fear, knowing that we are in safe pastures and God is watching out for us.
As we let this truth sink in, the truth that we don't have to be afraid, our homes will become joyful places, lighthearted places, places where our children are free to grow and develop without fear.
What verses help you combat fear? How does your home reflect the joy of the Lord?
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"And there were in the same country shepherds abiding in the field, keeping watch over their flock by night."Luke 2:8 KJV
Often, a shepherd scene depicts men in robes standing quietly in a field. Although this might have been a part of being a shepherd, there were also the moments, as depicted in the story of David, when a shepherd was fighting off a bear or a lion. As mamas we are called to be aware of what lions our young children are facing and set up protective boundaries so that they can safely grow and develop. As they grow, the boundaries we have set up will help train their tastes so that one day they can make good choices for themselves. Being aware and watchful over our flock is an essential part of Heavenly Mothering.
God calls us to a life of faith, but living by faith doesn't mean letting our children raise themselves. We stay aware of what our children watch, who they interact with and where they go. They are our sheep and a good shepherd is watchful and aware lest a wolf steal in and devour their sheep. While they are young, we are training them to recognize what is safe and what isn't, and training them to appreciate true beauty so that they can reject counterfeits.
In our family, this means that we listen to many genres of music but we keep lyrics clean and edifying and stay away from harsh styles. This means that we make careful choices about what movies or shows we watch and generally keep the T.V. off so that our children can develop their imagination. This means that we homeschool our children so that we have the maximum amount of time possible to teach our children an appreciation for true beauty and the freedom to pursue intimacy with God.
Being aware means making sure that our children are being introduced to true beauty so that they will recognize counterfeit beauty when the time comes.
What resources do you use to teach your children about beauty? What common parts of culture to you reject as you stay aware?
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I am so excited about joining the, "31 Days of Writing" challenge that is hosted by Myquillin Smith of The Nester. I read a book this year called Heaven on Earth, about Waldorf homeschooling, and there were so many lovely things about it, but the spiritual aspects of it were not necessarily from a Christian perspective. I have also read many parenting books that were written by Christians, but so many of them dealt intensely with how to get our children to behave and seemed to completely overlook the other more joyful aspects of growing up in a Christian home.
As a young mom, I was very guided by these behavioristic books and it took having a child with a learning difficulty for me to start studying child development and realizing that children need lots of sensory input to develop healthy mental abilities.
It is very hard for a child to get that proper development when they are kept in a playpen for hours or in blanket training. It is also hard for them to develop confidence and decision making skills if they are not allowed any decisions at all. Teaching children to obey, so they can obey God might be a good place to start, but there is a whole lot more to bringing up children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.
What should Christian mothering look like? That is the topic that I am going to explore here in the next 31 days.
Christian children can be creative and artful and sweet and well mannered at the same time, but I think we have made Christianity way too much about behavior and overlooked what a happy adventure it is. If we have overlooked it ourselves, chances are, our children aren't getting that message either.
On the other hand, for some of us in our efforts to shy away from behaviorism and legalism, we might be making life harder for our children by not teaching them some basic civility that is necessary for a family or society to function.
So join me over the next 31 days as I use three important passages of scripture to illustrate Heavenly Mothering, mothering that nurtures children to be both kind and creative, obedient and adventurous, respectful and radiant, all for the glory of our King.