I am pretty sure that my oldest child by seven years old was running the house, or at least able to cook lunch, change a diaper and clean the bathroom, but these youngest two have had so many older kids to pick up the slack that they have been able to act like a couple of slackers. Not really. Just super- creative, making messes all over the place, and seldom remembering to clean up all that they played with, sweethearts.
I did a lot of Montessori From The Start stuff with them when they were younger; washing dishes, folding laundry, preparing snacks and polishing furniture, but now with more pressure to do real school with them, my one on one time has been spent instructing them on school subjects, or reading aloud, which has left the chore teaching, sadly lacking.
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The New Chore List |
To her credit, my seven year old does help out whenever asked. She collects eggs, vacuums, clears the table and unloads the dishwasher, but without a chart, it is more haphazard and there is often some resistance to the more tedious of those chores.
Just when I was looking at my sad chore organizing system this morning, I happened upon a link to Riddle Love's latest post on chore planning. She shares some good resources and information about how they are doing chores which I am excited to research. She also talks about one of the most important aspects of any successful chore system. Training your workers. This is why for really important chores like cleaning the kitchen, I make a detailed list of what that entails, and post it somewhere prominent.
I am hoping that with the new chore charts that I just created for the younger two, I can get them helping out with a bit more consistency and excitement.
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Yay for chore charts!! My 3.5-year-old has one that I adore. Montessori has really helped him to develop the confidence that he CAN do more "grownup" things!
ReplyDeleteI love how Montessori teaching encourages practical skills! Thanks for visiting!
ReplyDeleteMy son is 17 months old and he already helps me load the laundry, and occasionally "helps" me vacume and sweep. I will have to start an official chore list soon.
ReplyDeleteHow great that you are already involving your son in practical life skills! It might take more time when they are little but will certainly pay off. Thanks for visiting!
DeleteThis is such a great idea!! I will have to implement this with my littles. :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Kristi,
DeleteI hope you have lots of fun with it as well as your children.
I wish I had used a chore chart with my son when he was little. He does clean his room without being asked, though... most of the time... so I guess that's a start. =)
ReplyDeleteThat is a good start! Sometimes with older kids it helps to add some kind of incentive. I rarely have a budget to pay my kids but if I do have extra money I would far rather pay them to do some extra work for me than pay a stranger. Thanks for visiting.
DeleteAwesome. I totally know what you mean about how you let your youngest to go way longer with less responsibility. I see the same trend in my family big time! I don't do any kind of structured system for the youngest two, but my four year old will have a birthday soon and I think we'll get started. Thanks for the tips.
ReplyDeleteHave fun figuring out a chore list Natalie! I am still working on implementing this with my youngest two, but at least being aware and following through with making sure they are doing the small tasks they are asked to do is a good start.
DeleteI really like your system! I have two little twin boys and it is very hard to make them do whatever for now but I have to start somehow!
ReplyDeleteI think the best jobs beyond bed making for little guys is cleaning windows. Every kid loves using a spray bottle and if you fill it with vinegar and water it will be perfectly harmless. Having little ones help can sometimes be more work than help but it lays a foundation for teamwork as they grow older. Thanks for visiting!
DeleteI agree that young kids can be taught to do chores correctly but not so sure about teens as this young man demonstrates: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=098ctCCNmNQ
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